I’m tired of hearing that. Really, I am.
What is wrong with just “You look good”? Period.
I went out clubbing in New York City and was told that. I have been told that several times since. I am only 36. I could understand if I were in my 50s. But seriously, being in my 30s and mistaken for being in my 20s then being told that I look good for my age is a bit trite.
Why is the gay community so hung up with age? Why is it that 30 somethings want someone in their 20s? I really don’t get it. Are we, as a community that vain? What the hell does a 21 year old have in common with a 38 year old?
I guess I am different in that regard. I want someone around my age. I want someone that I can grow old with, not that I can watch grow old or vice versa.